Positivity in your life is very important and if you think and do positive things then your life can be very rewarding not only for you but for the people around you. Below are 50 positive things that you should consider doing:
1. Have a firm handshake, as it dictates love, warmth, closeness and your strength of course
2. Look people in the eye because they will feel closeness with you.
3. Sing in the shower, (because that maybe the only place where you can hide your ugly voice…lol)
4. Own a great stereo system and enjoy the music you love.
5. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard, never get down and show your opponent your power and muscle strength.
6. Keep your secrets to yourself as it will maintain your respect.
7. Never give up on anybody as miracles happen everyday and any day can be your lucky day.
8. Always accept an outstretched hand because there’s nothing bad in accepting help from people around you.
9. Be brave even if you’re not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference as everybody is afraid of something.
10. Whistle whenever you find a chance.
11. Avoid sarcastic remarks as it may ruin your friendship and relations.
12. Choose your life’s mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery.
13. Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out. You will strange feelings and happiness inside.
14. Lend only those books you never care to see again. When you give something to others then there is no guarantee of it whether you will get it back or not.
15. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have. Rather add to their hope by consoling them
16. When playing games with children, let them win. This will increase their confidence level and is essential for their training.
17. Give people a second chance, but not a third. No body should take you as granted for and they should remain in their limits.
18. Be romantic, of course with your wife. It will fill your life with physical and mental pleasure.
19. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know. Copy your favorite personality, may it be a film star, player, politician or whoever.
20. Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems.
21. Don’t allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It’s there for our convenience, not the caller’s. Never get addicted to a smartphone, it will ruin the beautiful moments around you.
22. Be a good loser. Never take losing to your hear, consider it just a part of game.
23. Be a good winner. Always show a grace after winning from somebody.
24. Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret. Remember a friend today may turn against you tomorrow and then you may get harmed by giving out your secret.
25. When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go. Let them feel that you have loved their embrace and do not want to let them go and want some more time in the hug.
26. Be modest because a lot was accomplished before you were born and it will continue after you leave the world.
27. Keep it simple, straight and easy for yourself and for others.
28. Beware of the person who has nothing to lose. Such persons are dangerous as they care for nothing.
29. Don’t burn bridges. You’ll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river. Keep your ways open.
30. Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets. This can only happen if you have led a contended life.
31. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did. So it is better not to repeat the things again.
32. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them. It will make your life more pleasurable.
33. Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
34. Take charge of your attitude as it is the most important thing in your life.
35. Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need only stay a few minutes. They will feel your love and care, always take something good to eat for them or flowers etc. to show your love and affection for them.
36. Begin each day with some of your favorite music as it can freshen up and make you cheerful.
37. Once in a while, take the scenic route to praise the beauty and freshness of nature.
38. Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, ‘Someone who thinks you’re terrific.’ Always remember important occasions in others life and send greeting cards accordingly. May it be their birthday, wedding anniversary, promotion or any occasions that is important in their lives.
39. Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice so that the person on the other end can convey his message with confidence.
40. Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m. Penning down such thoughts will benefit you tomorrow or the day after.
41. Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job is. Respect people working on the roads and be thankful to them for making your life easier.
42. Send your loved ones flowers randomly even if there is no occasion for them. Think of a reason later.
43. Make someone’s day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you. It may act as a surprise gift for him and will surely bring a smile on his face.
44. Become someone’s hero. There are lot of people around you for whom you are not lesser than a hero.
45. Marry only for love and make your partners’ life full of enjoyment and love.
46. Count your blessings, you will be very thankful to the Almighty Allah for the bounties he has given you.
47. Compliment the meal when you’re a guest in someone’s home. Praising their cooking or anything else will fill their heart with joy and thankfulness. You will always be welcomed in that house with open arms.
48. Wave at the children on a school bus, they will feel happy and surprised.
49. Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people. Learn public dealing and make other people wanting your company.
50. Don’t expect life to be fair, problems and hurdles are part of the life, never be afraid of them. Face them and solve them.
There are number of other positive things to do in your life but the 50 enumerated above will surely make a huge difference in your life. Remember life is given once so why not to make it enjoyable and loveable. Good luck and stay blessed.